Monday, 4 March 2013

I haven't laughed so much for ages!!!


So my 62nd birthday has come and gone, and considering my aches and pains and limited mobility, I have had a good time. Just to get the medical bit out of the way, I am struggling considerably with mouth ulcers and sores at the moment - this is a side effect of the chemo drug 'everolimus' but whilst it is doing its job, and I shall know that for certain after my next CT scan, then "sore mouth's", however extreme, are something i have to put up with. It does mean, however, I struggle with my eating, and my talking!!!! A quiet time for Sue!

Talking of Sue - I know that she doesn't find it at all easy. I am so appreciative of all that she and others do for me. But sometimes I feel Sue doesn't quite understand just how frustrating it is being so reliant on others, and there are times when she gets quite sharp with me, and then I bite back!

On my birthday itself, Daniel was my first visitor, who called on his way to work. Then John and Pete came to take me out for lunch. They are brothers who I have been friendly with for over 50 years, since we were in the cubs together. John still lives in Grimsby, and Pete near Lincoln. We usually meet up a couple of times a year, and it was great to see them on my birthday.

Mark came to see me in the evening, and that ended a lovely day.

Friday saw lunch with Beryl at Reg Taylor's.

Saturday a low day, and Sunday the first of two trips to York this week - this one with Sue and Charlotte and Jill and Tom. But it hasn't got off to a good start as I feel lousy. Sue and I had a major row. Anyhow we set off, soon got over it, and had a great day.

And Sue happily pushed me round the streets of York.

But let's go back to Queen's Medical Centre Nottingham, and some fine people, on the medical teams, on the caring teams, and amongst my fellow residents.

I still pray for Dave, who was in the bed opposite me, and Sid who was in the bed next to me, and the many other people whose lives touched mine for a few weeks last November.

Then word came to me that I was moving on - nobody was quite sure where to - even when the so called ambulance came to move me, I was delivered to the wrong hospital!

Community Hospital Kirkby in Ashfield is where I should have been, not Community Hospital Mansfield. Eventually I got there and stayed there for almost 3 weeks, learning to use my legs again.

To a great extent this has been successful, and usually each day seems a little better and easier. The last couple of days have not been such days.

Nothing much to report on in the Community Hospital. The food was not so good, but there were still some wonderful people who I remember and still pray for.

That was going to be it for this post, but I must just refer back to our day out in York.

Went to visit the retail outlet just outside York, and I decided I would hire an electric scooter for a couple of hours. Well that was great fun, and Charlotte and I haven't laughed as much for a long long time. I managed to dislodge all the men's underwear in Mark's and Spencer's - Charlotte howled with laughter. I also managed to get stuck in a china shop, and Charlotte once again came to the rescue. I am certainly going to look at the possibility of buying one if I continue to struggle with my hip - not only will it help me get round, it is great fun.

How I have changed after grumbling about them in the past - yes, I hold my head down in shame, but beware if you see me gliding along the street on one of them.

So that's it for now - I think I have also finished my latest hospital experiences, but I will continue to post a blog every 2 or 3 days, with my usual insights into what is going on.

Will catch up with you again in a couple of days.

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